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Do you think he met someone and has been having a fling, just based on that information? I was promised that this woukd happen, by him and the staff. Now he tells me that he feels empty and without purpose; and blames me for failing him. Finally he admitted it and said it happened twice. Stay hopeful, stay connected to people who are supportive, and stay connected with God. Good luck xxx. I felt sick, he was crying and I told him you were not crying when you did this. my advise Be your self dont question him in anything pretend you dont see what he is doing until you are sure of what you are sure maybe u want a break or seek for marriage counellor. How to Be Your Own Private Investigator It took me a couple of years to get up the courage to do that though. Our bodies produce nourishment for our child. To all you loyal wives out there, if you have any suspicion, follow your instinct. She ask me things like should I still talk with or see him, should I tell the other woman to have a real chance with him, she thinks if she knew she would leave and then he could be with who he really loves, and should she see him after he is married? So i have no support and feel as if they have turned there backs on me. Thank you for sharing your experience here, with us. So the lesson learned is does not help to try mend a broken marriage if i you meant so little for him to cheat what has made me think that it could of changed, Stupid Charmaine lesson learnt, Suspect my husband is cheating after a few months of marriage. I still think that he did. But before that , before Mom died, I saw something she posted on his Facebook page that I found simply disrespectful to me so I made a snarky comment. He even wrote that he dreams about her and he is always elated to receive emails from her. It’s funny how he got angry at me for a simple thing like calling him out on a lie about another woman, and turns around to j***-off on p*rn. if you choose to stay i hope you understand that you will be allowing this. I am sure that in my shoes, and reasonable person would begin to start questioning the logic of one’s partner when nothing about their decision makes logical or economical sense- and when it starts to overtly impact on one’s relationship to the point that the intimacy vanishes… I would be a fool not to consider the possibility that perhaps there was something else going on. I had checked his phone log and found a call to her house 15 minutes long and once again I confronted her and him with it and they claimed it was all business. Please don’t. Stacey how did you put tracker on his phone without him knowing my husbands is password protected and they have to except thanks for the help pam. He got VERY ANGRY and told me off. You would look me directly in the face with loving eyes and tell me that it was nothing. I haven’t had any gut feelings but i’m still scared he’s cheating again and it’s starting to affect my everyday life. Open your heart and mind, and stay alert to what God whispers in your ear. With another mans wife. I see the way he looks at me (which is awesome), and I know I take his breath away. I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of trust In your marriage. All came up negative. I’m 36 years old, him 38. Be vulnerable. He didn’t leaver her right away. Pointed his finger at me while angrily telling me he was “tired of this stuff!” and “I’m done!”. Someone please give me some advice??? He called her a lier and I beleived him. I have a very strong feeling my husband is talking to someone(a woman engineer he works closely with?) Nancy, your Husband is cheating with the young lady. Many blessings of peace and joy on you, Asked him what he wanted the night before. Love = Woman. It’s normal to feel confused and get mixed messages from your instincts, because this is an extremely emotional subject. Your response to “Naive” had a huge effect on how I have been feeling about my own situation and has helped me towards finding the best solution and/or direction for ME more so than for my husband and I. I always justified his online activities and never thought (or wanted to think) that they were any kind of threat or not enough to worry about because after all, it’s ONLY entertainment right?? Thanks for pointing these things out. Only because his emails… We have lots of it at home. I had found years ago where he was emailing two different people talking to them. He in fact told me she was an older woman at the time. You deserve better than settling for less. I haven’t met her but I am scared it will be like last time. He’s a cheater! he gets mad when is freind look or talk to me if i just next to him. Yes man cheat and you can tell. Some times we mowan see it hard to decide of what we want in life, sorry to say that. So him and this guy was curious I guess. If you don’t feel supported or loved by your fiance, then you’ll have a much harder time getting over the cheating. After a few days, I saw that he had changed the name he saved her contact details with, now its a different name. Some men dont care about their child but still ask for custody. And to all the women in fl beware of christy bowen she is know for being the other woman and I think she likes it. I caught him looking at porn several times and then caught him viewing it 5 feet away from me. My husband is very smart so he can hide sum of the signs like wen he kums home he stil wants to hav sex but he always accuses me of things, he’ll kum home and look at the bed and snoop around, hes always saying im liying about sumthing or that im cheating. Heidi, i love your answer. Amen. Yes, it will be hard to leave. So if there is any advice i would be ever so greatful. Just thank god for that… PLEASE don’t have children until this is fix. Lol. Should I confront him and take my chances with getting an answer or just let it go until our time is up overseas? If he doesn’t STOP, and soon, my plan is to leave after getting some financial arrangements made. i confronted him and telling me he was about to tell me but i could not listen. He and this girl stayed friends that whole time, and I was certain they would end up together……but they DIDN’T. The better you know him, the easier you’ll spot the signs he’s lying about cheating. i am so low over the loss of my best friend and Mother I think I might as well just get splitting up over and done with because he will never change. I found message from other women wishing him Happy Thanksgiving and I found message from women texting him her new #. Am i being crazy for over reacting? Nonetheless, as we’ve stated above women still cheat, I just think that it’s probably a bit less frequently than men. Maybe it’s not the cheating or the lying that’s the issue. May you accept the most painful reality – because the first step to healing after an affair is to know if your husband is lying about cheating. On Friday I went to meet him at work, and on my way there he called me and asked if I would meet him by his car. I need some problem sloving help! My husband usually works on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday’s. Am I the other woman? He is a hard working man, he’s absolutely wonderful with my girl, he is a great provider, my family loves him, he has never hit me or tried to hurt me in any way. I’ve had more issues with him with other women also. and their father don’t want to change.. please help. I have never been so sad in my life. (Note that this can’t be 100% accurate because if a man knows this, he’ll change the way he speaks, right?). Raquel. Plus my husband told me that he was going to go get gas before he comes home from work the other day, and my husband hasn’t used his car since then. Women who are dissatisfied with their relationship are more than twice as likely to cheat; those who feel they are sexually incompatible with their partners are nearly three times as likely. Yet he was earning nothing, in fact it was costing him to go to the office every day, money we didn’t have, with a brand new baby to care for… and yet as far as he is concerned, it is my fault. It’s not that easy to cut and run when it’s not just you to consider. He even has a profile set up I confronted him and he denies it’s him he says someone set him up. Are you happy in this relationship? His stories keep changing. I can’t really explain it, and I don’t know if he makes comments to test me or to try to get me to stop talking about exs and making him uncomfortable, but I wish he could just tell me how he feels. I’m very sorry you went through that on your honeymoon. Come to find out this lady had left her husband a few yrs ago for another man at the plant and he works the opposite shift as them. He would say good morning and goodnight. But i cleaned the slate, never brought it up again and moved forward positively. I don’t want to tell him about the tracker cause I want to keep track so I know he is lying to my face, this is killing me and I can’t function we have 2 girls 7 & 4 and I don’t want to break up our home but I’m so scared it’s killing me. a few yrs ago she move in with us and right after they were a alillte bit to close . The uncertainty about whether he has ever cheated on me is what makes me think I should leave. He begged for me to stay I refused.). I have and is still married to a man for 19 years. It seems like I don’T know this person. He told me he wouldn’t get anymore emails from these girls but i found out he did. Hi Mspinkstuff, I feel the same with you. If we have been cleared before, and I am pregnant, why use condoms? I know that I am not wrong, I know that even IF( big IF) he never slept with her, he had an intense emotional relationship with her, that superceeded ours by far, and that alone has ruined our relationship and our marriage, and I cannot let go of the it, I need to know the truth, and why! I almost told him everything. 5. Usually pornography is a catalyst for other problems in a marriage that can be waiting to surface. Thank you for being here, and for sharing what you’re going through with your husband. So 3 months later, I moved out of state. here it goes my husband of 15yrs. Hi all- I have been married for 43 yrs. Well i went to counseling, tried to turn other cheek, live what bible says about forgiveness ,we even MOVED out of state. So for many years I couldn’t understand how he could treat me so direspectful and without consideration for my feelings. I am offering only my own persepective. 3) About two months ago, in addition to him withdrawing affectionately from me, he started telling me frequently (when I asked for a hug) that I needed to say “please” if I wanted or needed a hug. And they will get frustrated or angry when a partner doesn't see it the same way. I did not think anything of if as I thought they were in one of the establishments looking at a job they would be doing. No, she’s not vastly insecure or had terrible experiences in the past with other men. Little did I know, he was waiting for the right moment to assault me. I was able to hear how far the relationship had gone. So needless to say I took him back but this time set rules for myself. No hand holding no romance pretty much nothing!!! I cannot tell you if you should stay with your cheating husband, but I do believe he will not change. If their belly button faces the door or exit, it’s because subconsciously they want to leave or escape. You have to let him go, he will never change. Then a girls page. I need some advice asap on what to do or how to go about confronting him again. So I am male at the age of 31 and I am 4 out of 5 of these things that are listed. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME SORT THIS OUT SOMEONE.I DID TAKE HIM BACK UNDER THE USUMPSION THAT IT HAPPENES BUT I CANT GET OVER IT WITHOUT A COMPLETE ADMISSION.PLEASE HELP ME SOMEONE..LINDSEY 24, FLORIDA. Although lately I have this same gut feeling I had when I was suspecting him of cheating. while iam saying this i was in the very long dangerous relationship for good 6 years the first two years we were fine with my byfrind the yr folowed eish… the man start cheating on me we weere not living in the same house so he was free to do of what he wants later on, he comes to my flat as he pleased and i do the same thing. I now know he is a narcissist as well. He said okay, it was just a picture because she wanted to show him her new hair style, whatever! We both live in the same building. He just three days ago tried to strange me because I wanted to be alone and all of a sudden, he has turned into this Angel who all of a sudden wants to kiss me, touch me etc.. He swears he never met up with any of the women. It can be very difficult to know if your husband is cheating and lying. All the proof was on his credit card from work. I never cheated on him. He would always get angry or flustered when I would ask about the women he has been messaging or Skypeing with. He says that its because he is tired of being accused of something he isn’t/hasn’t done. He said that during the time he and she were emailing, he felt guilty because he knew it was wrong and was going to let it phase out because it seem to be. Now it’s been over a month and from the time we came back to his mother’s house he was slowly treading away from staying in contact. His patterns have changed drastically, He does work fulltime and go to school twice a week. and when i bring it up with him, he just says he was kidding, and that he would never cheat on me. I also think he’s still eyeing other candidates and other woman but hasn’t stepped over the line. be abusive towards you? NOW iam a very happy person in very healthy, happy, protective relationship. My husband was talking to other women and lying to me. I’ve been willing to work, but am growing impatient and feeling more and more like I should just leave. You’re not just paranoid, he’s just a bad liar because the truth is he’s busy with a girl who isn’t you. Hi Comments are welcome pls. I accidently discovered some condoms in his suitcase. I’m sorry he did this. Our early years and total of 3 kids plus his huge family interfering every chance they got….and on and on did put great strain on me (us). (deleted texts between them, etc). When I ask him if he loves me,he says yes. 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